Her New Journey

13 01 2010

k2b

She is officially in kindergarten.  Been struggling with this decision for a long time and been waiting for Him to give us the right decision.

The thought of sending Z to kindergarten started because in 2009, with E being in Primary school, I find myself usually busy helping him with his studies in the afternoon, thus leaving Z quite on her own.  I feel bad, really bad.  She didn’t have a companion to play with while mummy and gor gor were busy.

Another reason is the lack of dynamic.  Homeschooling in 2008 is very different from homeschooling in 2009.  In 2008, E was still at home, and EZ had each other to keep each other company.  Although in 2009, Z and I enjoyed our 1-1 bonding time without any interruption from E, most of the time, Z was not really having a ‘child companion’.  She was with me in the AM, by PM, I was busy with E, and E also didn’t have much time to play with her on most weekdays.

Sigh.  I felt really bad.  Thus the idea to send her to a kindergarten in the afternoon when I’m busy with E surfaced.

I’m pretty sure God’s hands have been with us.  Why?

  • the kindergarten is actually full.  But surprisingly, we got a space somehow.
  • I really dislike the administrator, BUT, when term started, I was surprise to see that she has left!
  • the timing is really perfect.
  • I finally have the peace.

Having said these, I am still homeschooling Z in the morning.  I still want to use FIAR with her. I still want to read all the stories.  I still want to talk about the countries, culture, artworks, etc with her.  And we are still meeting our homeschool mate that we have been meeting for the last 4 years.

So, my attitude towards the kindergarten is really just for her to have fun and make friends :)

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8 responses

14 01 2010
Adeline

I like to read your posts especially as I really can see God’s hands in your life.
Currently, going through emotion roller coaster – office working relationship… been praying for reconcilation as I generally a peace maker…. Haiz… one of the colleague refused to talk to me and she did not want to tell me the reason why….

14 01 2010
Adeline

She looks so cute :)

14 01 2010
ee lin

i think your situation is so ideal. i’d love to have homeschooled my kids but let them have a 2-3 hr a day kindy for interaction and to play.

14 01 2010
ezmum

Hi Adeline. No time no ‘see’ :) Hope everything turns out well.

Ee Lin, there is a good plan for very household :) You are already doing your best. And I only have 2 kids :)

15 01 2010
Yvonne

That’s what I believe in also, which’s roughly what I do w/ the kids. (AJ is more neglected, unfortunately. Life as a 2nd child, sigh) – I still teach them on my own @ home, but they still ‘ve fun in sch.

15 01 2010
ezmum

@Adeline, oops, I meant “LONG time no see” :P

@Yvonne, I’m kind of enjoying having Z in the morning with her going to school only in the afternoon. Which is also one reason I’m a little concern about that school I’m doing PV in. It’s single session. both kids may be fighting for my attention in the afternoon.

16 01 2010
Yvonne

Did u ask when R will go single session?

16 01 2010
ezmum

I did. Typical answer, by 20?? (the year given by MOE.)

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