I have a less than ideal life, and a less than ideal family. BUT, how many on earth has a perfectly ideal situation right?
In the midst of glooms in my life, I’m thankful that God didn’t test me beyond what I can bear. As mentioned in my previous entry, E has done us proud.
Today, another incident which really caused my chin to be raised up high.
Incident 1
Was at the paed for Z’s long overdue jab. While I was discussing Z’s jabs schedule with the paed, E was playing with a toy on the paed’s table and making a lot of noise. I looked at him and requested that he keep his noise volume down cause I had something to discuss with the doctor.
E replied, “Yes mummy.” And he kept his voice really low since than.
Doc stared at me and said, “So obedient ah!”
Incident 2
At the end of the consultation and jab, doc gave Z 2 small packs of gummies. She told Z that she could share the gummies with her bro when she is ready.
Z immediately gave E one pack of the gummies without hesitation.
E promptly said, “Thank you Zoe.”
Z replied, “You are welcome Gor Gor.”
Doc was impressed by the mannerlism and generosity displayed by the siblings.
Praise::: IMPORTANT!!!
Parents reading my blog… this is IMPORTANT:::
To encourage good behaviour, remember to praise your children as soon as you can.
After seeing the doc, while we were lunching, I told the siblings how proud I was with their behaviour and told them to keep up with the good work.
And of course, they both beamed with joy and pride.
You did a good job Delci!
Yes! I agree. I am hoping my 2 sons will get along well instead of fighting each other….