Is there such a thing as easy disciplining??? There is…
He is not sharing
My latest issue with Mr E is in the area of sharing. He is growing, and he has been very protective over his things, his food, is everything!
Last week, when he was not willing to share something again, I decided not to persuade him anymore, but to wait for other opportunity to share with him, and at the same time, to allow God to work in him (and me).
The opportunity came…
Few days later, while we were walking home from our grocery shopping, with a very relaxed mental state, I was prompted to share with E about what the bible and God said about giving and sharing, and quoted:
“Give, and it will be given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together and running over, will be poured into your lap. For with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.” ~ Luke 6:38
Also shared that the bible also said:
“Whoever sows sparingly will also reap sparingly, and whoever sows generously will also reap generously…. for God loves a cheerful give.” ~ 2 Cor 9:7
What about me? Am I sharing???
On Sunday night, God prompted me super strongly, to give a pair of the crocs that I bought from the sale to my neighbour’s daughter. I STRUGGLED!!! Tried to bargain with God. “But God, I have already given P and M some of the T-shirts and skirt that I bought.”
Sharing is nothing when the thing means nothing to us.
Sharing is something when the thing means something to us!
I finally obeyed, and gave a pair to her, not grudgingly, but, from the bottom of my heart.
The fruit of obedience
Since Sunday, I noticed that E has been improving a lot in the faculty of sharing! Just now, he asked me:
“Mummy, did you noticed I have been sharing?”
“E, yes, I did, and I’m really proud of you.”
Got the secret???
God – the secret… without God, we cannot.
And I’m really thankful to Him for making my parenting journey easier.
What I find most rewarding through this particular journey is that, other than me, E clearly recognised a higher authority, ie, God. He knows that the bible is meant for us to obey, and when we obey what the bible says, the promises in the bible will be fulfilled in our life. This is certainly the most importantly lesson learnt.
E (and me) are not there yet! But, we are learning together.
Most importantly
This episode gave me a sense of relief and peace, cause I know the burden of parenting is not upon my shoulder alone, but God’s too.
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