A faithful blog reader of mine asked for tips on getting 3 & 5yo children to be interested in devotion.
Since my children are currently only 3 and 5yo, I may not be the best person to answer this question. Probably those with older children will have better credibility. I can only share my view on this and what has worked in my household so far.
Setting an example
I believe in this so much so that it is probably one of the key reasons why I am now more consistent in my devotion than before.
If I myself am not spending time with God, how can I expect my children to be interested?
I don’t hide my devotion time. I am not shy to show them that mummy is doing her devotion.
Every morning, I do my devotion even before I brush my teeth. My children are so used to it that when any of them come knocking on my door, and see me reading or praying, they will just close the door and go out to play without any words.
It didn’t started this way. Initially, there were lots of reminder to tell them mummy is spending time with God, and they have to wait till I’m done. So, be prepared for lots of interruption when implementing this. By now, in a household of only 2 children, they are both very used to leaving me alone till I’m done.
Letting the child experience God in their own life
I have experienced God’s love in my life, which is why I am hungry for God and want to spend time with Him everyday. Likewise, for the children to have the desire to spend time with God, they have to experience and know God’s love in their life. Else for them, it is meaningless and may even become another ritual.
An ex-leader of mine told me this: “You can’t force our God unto our children. For them to believe in our Jesus, they need to experience the goodness and love of God in their own life.”
This became the goal in the way I teach my children about God. It really started from very simple thing like praying for a taxi, a good weather, a particular friend to be at the playground/playgroup, etc.
God is really good to children. He answered my children’s prayer 95% of the time! I really believe through all these experiences, Mr E know that our God is real, Jesus is real, Holy Spirit is real. This makes devotion time real. Cause he knows that he is spending time with someone real, and not just with a book call Bible.
Prayer
Last but not least, prayer. Pray for their spiritual health, no other prayer for our children is more important than this.
Other practical tips
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It all started with a love for reading -I introduce books to my children from the day they are home from the hospital. Both of them love books. Bible becomes a wonderful book that they love.
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Make devotion applicable for them - Try to related their life to the story read. Eg, this week we are focusing on “God is our helper”, so I relate his piano class experience when he was fearful in the beginning, and how, when faced with similar situation in the future, instead of depending on mummy, he can depend on God for help and courage.
Hope this helps.
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